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Old 12th July 2007, 23:09   #1 (permalink)
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Unhappy My holiday to Tenerife wasn't so great...

I have been posting here a bit pre my holiday in Tenerife (got back last friday). I had an awful time, not because of Tenerife, the weather was lovely and all. My fella of 13 yrs with whom I have a 12 yr old daughter with decided to end our relationship before the holiday (but didn't tell me) and made our stay a nightmare. Then no sooner had we landed back in Manchester he told me he didn't love me anymore and we are now splitting up. It's come like a bolt out of the blue. Sorry, I probably shouldn't have posted this, my head is all over the place at the moment.
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Old 12th July 2007, 23:14   #2 (permalink)
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oh punch, so sorry to hear that....i know you must be devasted now..it is fine if you want to post it, this is what we are all here for as well, not only to give advice which we maybe can't really in your situation right now, but at least to listen while you try to vent....no worries, and if you want, just pm me....
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I am so sorry to hear that. You must be devasted. Take each day as it comes, it will get more bearable, even though you wont think that at the moment.

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Thankyou. My real name is Lisa. I certainly won't forget this holiday in a hurry. Ughh... there's so much i could elaborate on .....I'll spare you the details. I'm so
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Old 13th July 2007, 08:44   #5 (permalink)
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Sorry to hear your sad news. Can't men be ******** some times. What you need is another holiday here with your daughter and let some of us girlies take you out.

Take care and stay strong
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sorry to hear about your situation .men i wish i could live with out mine!
come back to tenerife and im sure you will have a fabulous time ..im sure life will get easier as each day goes by ..good luck and keep us all informed Lisa
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really sorry to hear that! and there will be little I can say that will make you feel better... however just remember that we are all here for you on here.

Just out of interest, were you married, and did he give you a good reason? I know it's still not nice, but sometimes it's harder to accept if you can't understand why... at least then you can cry, get angry, then get over it quicker...

I really feel for your daughter... is she handling it ok?
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puncherella,

thats an awful thing to happen, and, may I say, as a bloke, we're not all bad, although at the minute I suspect you may well feel all men are the scum of the earth,
its a particularly horrible thing to happen, that has not only knocked your life for six but obviously ruined your holiday into the bargain, there was no need for you to be treat like that, I hope you don't always associate Tenerife with
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if there is any chance at all you could get back to tenerife sometime I'm sure the girls who have already posted would ensure you had a better time,
good luck with whatever you do and don't give up
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Old 13th July 2007, 15:04   #9 (permalink)
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im sooo sorry to hear about that, as everyone has said we will read and help as much as we can so yuo can let everything out, and (starting to sound like an stuch cd, lol) dont give up on tenerife, you should arrange another holiday with your daughter and have a girls week or something, maybe come out with your bst friend and we can all show you what tenerife is really like ,
dont give up though, men can be such scum, but think of it like this, it is his loss, xxxx
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so sorry lisa to hear your news men really pick their times dont they although what is a good time , just concentrate on your daughter and yourself and tell yourself it might be a blessing in disguise , we are all here for you
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