This is probably a sad lonely late night thread (just a question)
Just feeling very lonley here on the island at the minute, feel such a weekling as crying as i type this,,, What do other forum members do when they feel weak and lonely and miss family back in the Uk and feel all alone here ,, think just i want to hear positive things to feel strong
Mother of 2 gorgeous young girls and trying my very very best to get on here on my own ,, really really am!!!! BUT SO SO HARD ,,,,,,,,,we all make mistakes in life,,,, only Human ..
have a good cry girl it will do you good just remember you are not alone there is a lot of helpfull people on this forum consider us all your friends and are all here for you dont appologise you have nothing to be sorry for
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We all have days when we feel lonely and sad and want to cry our eyes out But as Blue Marlin said we are all your friends and here to listen and even have a chat in the lounge just pm us
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Scotsthistle, I live in England and therefore I wouldn't know what it's like to miss my family as they all live here too. You have the most precious family members with you, be strong for them and yourself, you can do it
As Blue Marlin says, other members of this wonderful forum will give you support and advice, some, I would expect, with a similar experience.
All the best and be strong
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"To weep is to make less the depth of grief." - Shakespeare
Amazingly, science is beginning to confirm the accuracy of such statements. For the first time in history, researchers are verifying that crying is for us because tears appear to reduce tensions, remove toxins, and increase the body's ability to heal itself. In short, scientists are drawing the conclusion that people who are able to cry may enjoy better physical and emotional health.
Got those pearls of wisdom from here Not much help when you're feeling low, I know, but take heart that at least crying is doing you good.
I'm sure you'll come out the other side smiling, just look at all the funny posts on here, and I'm sure you'll make some good, supportive friends on this forum too!
Scotsthistle. look what you've achieved! A while back you thought you would have to leave the island but you've picked yourself up and kept the routine for your girls and found some stability. You've been giving encouragement to others too. The social bit is difficult for all of us when children are young but eventually it will grow. Try to do something new everyday, however small, keep busy and smile at everyone as you pass them. Most people respond to a chat or a friendly word. It's evening time which is often a bit depressing. Wait until tomorrow morning when the sun shines, the mountain soars to the sky, the girls will wake you cheerfully and you'll be more content.
Have you got any chocolate in the fridge? It really helps! Margaretta
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oh dear I feel for you I really do and don't really know what to say to make it better. Sometimes we all miss family and friends back home, but we made our choice to move over here to live a new and better life for ourselves and our children and we need to remember that. Sometimes I just look at the sky and remember that my family are under that same sky, when they look up, they see the same sky as me, so its like we are all under one roof in a way. Do you talk to your children about the people at home? Ask them what they remember - or tell them about how it used to be when you were their age, about school and your friends and how you spent your holidays/christmas/etc. It helps to talk about it like that. I hope its just a phase and that you will feel better in the morning, when daylight comes. Thinking of you.
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And just think everyone's turning rusty and cold in the UK, while you're getting a proper colour in the warmth
I use msn and the webcam to keep in touch with my grandchildren in the UK, I get shown school projects, new pets, and new haircuts from their webcam, and use voip free calls to chat for hours to my mum, daughter and friends, especially when I'm feeling a bit down. Have you got those facilities?
have a good cry girl it will do you good just remember you are not alone there is a lot of helpfull people on this forum consider us all your friends and are all here for you dont appologise you have nothing to be sorry for
Thanks Blue Marlin, i know only too well how great and helpful people are on this forum, feel really daft putting this thread on now,, but feeling weak, Every time i feel weak im on that web site looking at flights,, then i say how can i take my kids away from there dad,, no matter what i think of him! and they do have a great life even though mum can be down ....within a year and a half my kids 7 and 4 are bilungual its beautiful and they go beach or pool every day without it costing the earth to enjoy the life here
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We all have days when we feel lonely and sad and want to cry our eyes out But as Blue Marlin said we are all your friends and here to listen and even have a chat in the lounge just pm us
I knew this thread would make me feel better just by puttin it on,., even now though im cringing at the fact everyone knows im weak and crying,, im a stubborn scot who tries to get on and then all of a sudden just drops
thanks xxxxxxxxxx
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But as Blue Marlin said we are all your friends and here to listen and even have a chat in the lounge just pm us 
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