I have my ticket back to the UK but don't want to leave Tenerife and lose everything.

special_k · 23rd April 2007, 17:33

i had to book my ticket back to uk .was sapposed to book it when it was 37 euros but it went up 100 by that time my ticket is now booked for the 1st may...I dont want to do it .
im so confused if i go i loose everything but sometimes we have no choice the choice is made by the partner..if i go i loose evrything i worked for ..hes made his life doing the job hes doing and its going to his head ..
i still love him and im hurting so much that this his how its gone ive done nothing but cry for the last few days even contemplated other things but i wont ..
i deep down dont want to give up but it is difficult to find what suits you here ...
any advice ..im sick of moaning

welshsprout · 23rd April 2007, 17:42

My heart goes out to you but I cannot offer any words of advice.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Janet · 23rd April 2007, 17:43

helhod, I am so sorry to hear this. BUT why must you lose everything? You have property here, I think??

joseph · 23rd April 2007, 17:48

if you don't want to leave and he makes you choose, he obviously isn't worth it talk to him about it and if hes still doesn't understand .do what you want to do !

special_k · 23rd April 2007, 17:55

i dont want to go and Janet we have 2 properties here i know if i go back he will satnd to make a good proffit lucky boy he is ..im so wound up...
if and thats a big if Maybe i can transfer my ticket lets wait and see

boro gal · 23rd April 2007, 18:00

i just wanted to say i'm so sorry for the hurt you are going through..
no split is ever easy, but to lose everything you've worked for is terrible my heart goes out to you.

i know wot your going through and that pain you are feeling is awful, it is a physical pain.. and only people who have had there hearts broken will know how you are feeling.

i know it's not much to offer you. but it will get better and that pain will go away i promise you. and you will come out of this stronger.

if you need someone to talk please don't hesistate to pm me..and i'll try and help you the best i can.

take care mande x

Janet · 23rd April 2007, 18:12

Quote:

Originally Posted by helhod

i dont want to go and Janet we have 2 properties here i know if i go back he will satnd to make a good proffit lucky boy he is ..im so wound up...
if and thats a big if Maybe i can transfer my ticket lets wait and see

Don´t let him get away with both of them, helhod ... some of that profit is YOURS.

helenne · 23rd April 2007, 18:34

would you be able to live in one of the apartments if you stayed? you obviously love living here, why don't you postpone your ticket for six months and give it a try. you have a lot of friends here, and if you really want to stay you should, don't give in without a fight. you will get over your break-up and you must think of yourself and what you want,

good luck with whatever you decide

helenne xxx

robby1234 · 23rd April 2007, 19:39

sorry to hear this helhod but i would go see a gestor right now you need not lose anything you are rightly entitled to wether married or not he can not do this to you.
rip the ticket up and fight he can not throw you out of your legal home(the one you are registerd at) even if he owns it out right he must give you a months notice in writing.

good luck with what you decide to do.

blue_bell · 23rd April 2007, 20:30

My heart really goes out to you helhod but do not give up your share without a fight I am sure that he has no rights to everything I know at this time it must feel like the loneliest place to be but dont make it easy for him if you have property then stay even if you have to squat in one of the apartments good luck will say a prayer for you