Are Tenerife forum members laid back?

[Geordiecraig]

I used to be a really laid back person when it came to stuff but I have noticed over the last few months I am worrying about stuff a lot more.....And when it plays over in my mind I cant sleep...which I HATE!

Do you guys think you are natural worryers (spelling?) or are you a chilled out kind of person?

[old golfer]

maybe too much on your mind to remember write things down and leave the notes on your bedside table then thats less things you have to remember which will aid your sleep also deal with things at the time dont let them mount up.

Also if you change your Avatar today that will save you in the future...


good luck its a hell of a problem when you dont sleep properly dont let it start...

[Janet]

It can be an age thing, Craig ..... maybe time approaching to, well, think of settling down .....

[CVW]

Originally Posted by Geordiecraig

I used to be a really laid back person when it came to stuff but I have noticed over the last few months I am worrying about stuff a lot more.....And when it plays over in my mind I cant sleep...which I HATE!

Do you guys think you are natural worryers (spelling?) or are you a chilled out kind of person?

As a forum member I am really laid back. I never opted in, so to opt now out is difficult. You have but one vida so enjoy. I elected to retire at 43 didn´t like it too much so have taken all sorts jobs of since then, not for the renumeration more for the occupation I do like to be doing something. I am independent so that helps, no one to answer to.

I care. I have opinions yes, but stress? Not really because I am classically a type A person, and as such, I learnt to deal with problems as they arrive therefor no stress factor. I can speak my mind, and unfortunately do all to often. The biggest thing in life I think is to see yourself as others do, and to be content with what you find there. To be prepared to say when you find things are out of order, and not to hide from confrontation this takes away stress!! It often causes it in others though so tread carefully.

[batty em]

I am so laid back I could fall over!!! And land softly by the time it takes me to get there!!!
Worrying is a perceived threat of something that hasn't happened yet! So why worry???
I hope what ever is troubling you, can be resolved soon!

[Geordiecraig]

Originally Posted by batty em

I hope what ever is troubling you, can be resolved soon!

So do I

[batty em]

Anything that your forum friends may be able to help with?
Please don't misunderstand I don't wish to be nosey, just thinking sometimes if you share a problem or have different perspectives on things they may not seem so bad after all...............Just a thought...........shouldn't have to many it's dangerous!

[Geordiecraig]

Originally Posted by batty em

Anything that your forum friends may be able to help with?
Please don't misunderstand I don't wish to be nosey, just thinking sometimes if you share a problem or have different perspectives on things they may not seem so bad after all...............Just a thought...........shouldn't have to many it's dangerous!

Thank you...I appreciate the thought but think I need to sort some stuff out myself ....
Its good to hear how other people deal with problems though

[Yummy Mummy]

Yes definately, and I do enjoy being laid back too.

[kaza]

Originally Posted by Geordiecraig

Thank you...I appreciate the thought but think I need to sort some stuff out myself ....
Its good to hear how other people deal with problems though

I'm usually horizontal most of the time but I do get VERY stressed at work at times, then I don't sleep well

You got women problems Craig