You are so right Mac. My husband and I used to run a boys football team for some years back in the UK. We always had the traditional end of season do plus others during the year [just as an excuse for a get together and party really

] and although we did have a brilliant group of parents who were all willing to put their hand in their pocket when needed we very rarely got any help organising these events due to the amount of work involved. It just made us all the more determined to make them the best they could be. We always used to try and do something a little bit different.One year we presented each player with caps as their end of season trophy that we had actually had made in the team colours and embroidered with the team name and their names on. We had them made by the company that make the caps for the England football team, the parents where gobsmacked. We always ended up out of pocket, but it was worth it for the success of the do's.